it's typically assumed that genders eat pronouns, certain types of clothing, and very little else, and while that's true for some people it may not be true for you! figure out what your gender likes and do your best to feed it well :)

kink, curse, politics 

i love to boogie! but do we have vans shoes under communism

drugs 

meta, discourse, 

is not alive

"are you a boy or a girl?"
"im dead!"