hey, i'm a short, fat, passing trans woman in her 30s, i've been on hormones for 6 months, i have an eating disorder, i have adhd and probably cptsd.
i didn't figure out who i was until last year.
first i started using they/them pronouns because 'honestly everything about being male is awful' and i didn't want to be associated with maleness.
a few months later my egg cracked for reals.
i had been spending a lot of time in self reflection, trying to figure out how to move forwards with my life, and it just clicked one day.
i used to tell myself that i wanted to be trans for all sorts of silly reasons, trying to convince myself this wasn't real.
i just want to be happy.
mastodon instance admins, are you aware of an up to date version of this guide?
Domain Block-adjacent
As a pre-emptive note, and for goodness' sakes, don't confuse the arsehole dj sumdog (with an m) with the Good People DJ Sundog (with an n).
rant-ish, LGBTQ/queer
idk how to explain it but like
I kinda feel like the LGBTQ community is, like, the "liberals" of being gay? and the queer community is the actual leftists? is it just me or do y'all also feel this way?
Like, the LGBTQ community used to feel quite inclusive and comfortable when I first got into it, but now it feels like it's just a bunch of people running around yelling at you for being gay "wrong", trying to impose oppressive, constricting rules, and just generally (1/?)
asking for help, mentions of rape, abuse, assault
So, we have kicked our roommate out after it came to light that they raped their partner in our home, a home full of trans rape survivors. Details are in this tweet, from the survivor of his assault and abuse. https://twitter.com/_nonbeenary/status/1281977008919109633?s=21
We cannot afford the increase in rent that’s going to happen to each of us. We have barely been staying afloat as it is. If you’re able, please help us. Links will be in next toot.
#introduction ― Hi, I'm Niva, I'm new to this. lol.
I'm trans nonbinary (novarian) (they/them) and furry/otherkin and obsessed with Star Wars and snowflakes.
Contrary to popular belief, being gay IS part of my personality, sparkle. ✨
Things I'll likely talk about (that say a lot about me, probably):
• being #queer / #lgbt / #transgender / #nonbinary
• #StarWars
• #anime
• #gaming, especially
- #DragonAge
- #AnimalCrossing
- #Pokémon
- #TheSims
• #antifa, #blm, #acab and anti #capitalism
• #memes
• #Japan
Yoroshiku ne!~
@jasmine test
asking for monetary help, boosts needed, medicine
a month's supply of my schizophrenia medicine costs $284
and that's WITH good rx
without good rx it's like $750
anyways... i still have some cash leftover from the first fundraising thing i did to get me out to seattle at the start of vantascape, but that's gonna be gone real quick if i keep having to do this every month
so i think i'm gonna have to crowdfund... my sanity
which is a super fucked up concept
anyways, yeah
anything past the initial $284 goal will be put toward my schizophrenia meds in future months, and in general keeping me alive while i job search
thanks so much!!!
you mean the world to me fediverse, you've kept me alive
my paypal is https://paypal.me/v33b33
Microsoft is about to shut off its ebook DRM servers: "The books will stop working" https://boingboing.net/2019/06/28/jun-17-2004.html
Trans lesbian & sapphic, grey demisexual, neuroatypical, bogan, software engineer.
If you need an internet mum, I'll do my best.
See pinned toots for current info.