Please note I do not accept follow requests from people I haven't interacted with at all. That's why it's locked in the first place. It's a control measure after years of being burned by online strangers. I'd say it's nothing personal but that would be a lie. It is personal. I don't know you. Not even a sliver. Go away until we've talked first. And even then I might yet place a stay on making any formal decision on approval or dismissal. I'm happy to let requests sit eternally.
Yes, hello, 1312. Land back. Indigenous style anarchy please.
This is an aggressively abolitionist account. I do not buy into the PIC, the MIC, the settler colonial state nor the fake concept of whiteness. I am also not a fan of retribution of any sort. I prefer recompense, equity and true freedom. Argue with your mother. I'm old and the only person imma baby is my actual child mmk? I AM NOT YOUR MAMMY. Pay me for my time, emotional labor and for the /usually/ gentle education and resources I provide (unless you've angered me and then just pay me for having to perceive your bullshit).
I don't want your broke, unspiced takes on issues that directly affect my marginalized to hell and back self and those who look like me across the world. We call it a diaspora (no relation to blogging service.) for a reason and we all are struggling in the same nonsense in different ways depending on location.
I am tired of y'all. On every platform including this one. :|
If I don't caption something please know it's because I literally didn't have the spoons. I think in pictures and translating my feelings to text is often extremely difficult and frustrating for me. That's what I would have to do to caption a gif. It's often not going to happen. It's not laziness it's literally "brain no words good rn"
I'd be heartbroken if I wasn't so accustomed to people treating me like shit. Some of these people are my own FAMILY.
It is not my job to make MY big day convenient for you. Weekends are nice but not required. Fuck you
When folks tell you who they are, listen to them.
What they say: "don't want to take the day off"
What they're really telling me: "you are not important enough for me to take the day off for"
personal life stuff
I don't know what I would even miss if I were ti miss anything besides my child and she isn't in California.
personal life stuff
I vacillate between very much looking forward to leaving and frothy rage at the way I'm being treated.
personal life stuff
And then everyone is wondering why I have pivoted so hard to focusing on my partner and my kid.
PAH.
personal life stuff
I have negative support structure irl. It's awful. Everyone expects me to support them then disappears when I need them.
personal life stuff
Tell me you're not actually in my corner without telling me you're not actually in my corner.
I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain.
—Frank Herbert; Bene Gesserit Litany Against Fear, Dune Saga
I just wish I didn't have to leave them all behind and go to the EU. I belong to this land. It ain't safe tho.
My fiancée
I do not say this joyfully. She picked a very bad day to be a dick about money. I am struggling not to break down rn. https://botsin.space/@lesbianBot/108439092495134081
Also this has upset my wife and I hate that. I go out of my way NOT to upset her. I know ☿ is Я rn but like...I need a break. I'm falling apart.
Like this song came out this week and I have genuine reasons to be super fucking sad rn, can I just have some goddamn peace please? https://youtu.be/mu-yapbIpoY
Like I finally got away and processed my comphet bro you do not interest me you weren't even a decent friend! So grateful I moved away. He'll never see me again he can't afford to be out here where I am and eventually I'm leaving.
I may have to sacrifice a gmail over this tho ngl. not worth continuing to suffer just to get emails from my dad. I can Duo dad from the other account. I don't need to email.
SF East Bay dweller.
Flower consumer.
Full Stack Dev in training.
Very loud 'bout muh culture (as needed)
Neurodivergent|Polyglot|Cultural Exchange Enthusiast|Cottagecore & Star Trek stan
Extremely Sapphic + aromantic + Engaged to best friend. Kinky with hard limits. Two Spirit baby birther. Very vocal about medical stuff.
Classically trained multi-instrumentalist.
Verbose
Often indignant.
Above all else: EXHAUSTED